He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

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He says:

Oh sure, they say they're busy. They say that they didn't have even a moment in their insanely busy day to pick up the phone. It was just that crazy. All lies. With the advent of cell phones and speed dialing, it is almost impossible not to call you. Sometimes I call people from my pants pocket when I don't even mean to. If I were into you, you would be the bright spot in my horribly busy day. Which would be a day that I would never be too busy to call you.

She says:

There is something great about knowing that my only job is to be as happy as I can be about my life, and feel as good as I can about myself, and to lead as full and eventful a life as I can, so that it doesn't ever feel like I'm just waiting around for some guy to ask me out. And most importantly, it's good for us all to remember that we don't need to scheme and plot, or beg anyone to ask us out. We're fantastic.

For ages women have come together over coffee, cocktails, or late-night phone chats to analyze the puzzling behavior of men.

He's afraid to get hurt again.
Maybe he doesn't want to ruin the friendship.
Maybe he's intimidated by me.
He just got out of a relationship.

Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that -- despite good intentions -- you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages.

The truth may be He's just not that into you.

Unfortunately guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, "You're not the one." But their actions absolutely show how they feel.

He's Just Not That Into You -- based on a popular episode of Sex and the City -- educates otherwise smart women on how to tell when a guy just doesn't like them enough, so they can stop wasting time making excuses for a dead-end relationship.

Reexamining familiar scenarios and classic mindsets that keep us in unsatisfying relationships, Behrendt and Tuccillo's wise and wry understanding of the sexes spares women hours of waiting by the phone, obsessing over the details with sympathetic girlfriends, and hoping his mixed messages really mean "I'm in love with you and want to be with you."

He's Just Not That Into You is provocative, hilarious, and, above all, intoxicatingly liberating. It deserves a place on every woman's night table. It knows you're a beautiful, smart, funny woman who deserves better. The next time you feel the need to start "figuring him out," consider the glorious thought that maybe He's just not that into you. And then set yourself loose to go find the one who is.

What Customers Say About He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys:

Or even to question why certain men act the way they do. I read this book years ago when it first came out and I find myself returning to it at least once a year, be it to clarify something, or to advise a friend. This book is a great read ladies, so go on and get it :-)It would be nice if it could be published in other languages. And I believe EVEN A SHY GUY will act a certain way when he likes a woman, and get over his fear (fess up eventually, work on how to handle things). I've given copies of this book (and extracts too) to friends who have needed them at different times and it does help to heal a lot of wounds and to understand how things should go in a relationship. In this day and age, when self-esteem issues are quite escalated, it is good to see and hear that a healthy relationship does not mean we have to be doormats to anyone.

Ignore the guys and they're all over you, even if it isn't the one you want it's better to have someone who's into you. very interesting.Interesting idea indeed and it actually works.

One thing I think is missing it should be titled "How to KEEP a guy into you ". I had a friend from school recently reveal that he always liked me.but was afraid to say something. I agree with the reviewer who said that some men are shy. and have a hard time telling a woman how they feel.

And they make sense. to get the point of their book across. They hit the nail right on the head. This book is full of the kind of advice your best girlfriend would give you when you are feeling down in the dumps over a guy. This little gem of a book definitely deserves five stars. After all, who really wants to hear that He's Just Not That Into You.When you see real life situations (he's not calling, all of a sudden he's too busy to see you) laid out in these easy to read chapters, it's hard to think the authors are not being spiteful. Only when your best girlfriend says these things, it's easy to get a little angry or even to think that she is being spiteful. They use humor and some over the top situations (at least I hope they are over the top).

Gals: Listen up. Dump him before he dumps you.

Read this book. Don't believe me.

Whew. If he doesn't call because he's to busy or is working to much or a million other "reasons" these are flimsy EXCUSES.

it is so right-on that you will be going yep yep yep. the title says it all.

Or shall I say, READ UP.